Unconscious Living Paradigm

Part One Published 28th November 2018 

In the old Paradigm of unconscious living and unconscious business. We tend to repeat the same patterns and problems over and over. And much worse we don’t identify ourselves as the source of those patterns and problems. We spend a lot of time at ignoring or recycling those patterns and then tremendous amount of energy is wasted trying to prove somebody else is to blame. In the old paradigm the Unconscious Living Paradigm, that is the unconscious living paradigm, people tend to get defensive in situations where they can be enlightened. I’ve seen it any time in the world a person gives feedback, somebody gives another feedback such as “Hey Bill you’ve got a drinking problem.” And Bill instead of saying “Thank you that’s really useful feedback.” Instead of doing that Bill gets defensive Bill retorts “Say’s who!”

 

So in the old paradigm we habitually used defensive manoeuvres such as, stonewalling, or ignoring, or denying reality that is trying to come into our picture.

Sometimes people will respond to our feed back by getting sleepy, by getting bored, or by getting hostile, or by getting tense.

Sometimes there a tendency to respond by completely withdrawn and getting fascinated by things like Food, Tv, Alcohol, Drugs, and social media. Rather than acing and dealing with what’s right in our faces.

 

In the old paradigm emotions are totally TABOO in other words we have the feelings that we don’t acknowledge in ourselves and we have feelings that we don’t share with each other. And we carry around the burden of secrets that we haven’t talked about to the relevant person.

 

In the old Unconscious Paradigm people particularly don’t take genuine responsibility. People think of themselves as victims and we go back and forth thinking of others as perpetrators or fellow victims. In a conflict situation we run for the victim position and cast the other person as the perpetrator. And to resolve arguments we often join hands with other people as being fellow victims.

That Never Works.
And
In the old unconscious living paradigm it actually has to not work to keep it all going because the old paradigm thrives on squelch, and squandered creativity.

In the old paradigm you must suppress and oppress your creativity keeping it hidden and you must have a bunch of reasons why you are doing that.

 

In the New Paradigm all of that is totally different.

The new Paradigm is built on several principles.

ABSOLUTE HONESTY
FAIRNESS
SELF-KNOWLEDGE
A FOCUS ON CONTRIBUTION
NONDOGMATIC SPIRITUALITY
THEY GET MORE DONE BY DOING LESS
OPENNESS TO CHANGE
A SPECIAL SENSE OF HUMOR
KEEN DISTANT VISION AND UP-CLOSE FOCUS
AN UNUSUAL SELF-DISCIPLINE
BALANCE

Part Two...Coming soon

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